How to Make Meeting Women Fun and Easy - Part I
June 18, 2008
Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you?
And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you’re doing you’re still not getting an inch closer to your goal?
If you agreed to those questions, then you may continue reading.
I’m not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.
Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.
You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.
Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving.
You must have the courage in the way you approach.
First off, you need to keep you conversation moving, then you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number or much better you have to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.
Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.
(Don’t get me started on that…let’s just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “pretty.”)
That can be debilitating, especially if you don’t have an “extroverted” trait.
… I have encountered a client that has a problem of “extroversion fatigue.”
I used to struggle with that too that’s why I knew exactly what he meant.
Before I started to teach myself about pick-up, and then found myself being mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.
What I do is to have a sit and rest!
Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.
I’d go home and be absolutely DEAD
… from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!
Does it make sense to you???
There you see the general dating fatigue. There’s an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.
I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!
The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)
But what can I say, I was very eager to learn all this stuff (and not to mention extremely hungers for results after years of sensual frustration).
I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym
I was working muscles or to be more precise I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS, that I had never used before
If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.
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