Dating Tips for Men: Time Management - Part 2
July 18, 2008
It is taught to young men that their physical urges is crude and silly, and that women are just doing a favor to sleep with them.
“Doofus dad” syndrome is another societal factor that I’m going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This will bring to the idea that the time of the women is more valuable than men because of the perception that women are “better.”
You will feel obligated to give a woman a LOT OF TIME if your time is not so valuable.
But here’s the thing - if you are giving a woman too much time, you won’t be present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.
I realized this after analyzing tons and tons of dates I went on with women.
After that I started to give my FULL ATTENTION to women even though I’m only giving a smaller amounts of my time.
This makes our time better, and aside from that it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women obsess more.
Now my girlfriends can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”
Women can’t be pulled to what they already have. You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me.
The proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST. And I don’t recommend you to play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever.
No need of games, just be real with the girl - and don’t spend more time that you want.
Enjoy whatever free time you have with women but still with focus on your personal goals. Be the man on the go.
Now this requires that you are able to meet a lot of women in a short amount of time, which I’ll have to cover in another newsletter.
It’s not good to see that men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” girls, and then they are left out ALONE.
Remember that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.
Investing all your time with a woman is not a guarantee that you can “keep” her.
Another point that I want to give - when you start being honest about how much time you’re going to give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It either she will make you feel guilty or you will feel it on your own. That’s ok, it just means that you have a weak focus.
If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.
If you are in the habit of adopting the values that others try to impose onto you, you will probably experience some tension, guilt, discomfort, even loneliness at first.
That’s why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It’s all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ emerge from within.
And no, we don’t try to impose our values or goals onto you. We think you’ll be able to do that for yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin
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